Everyone has their own coping strategies.
Have a look at these tips on how to prevent self - harm ,but remember everyone is different so the best person to be aware of what can help you is yourself!
1. Ice cubes
Many young people find holding two ice cubes and allowing them to melt in their hands – gives the same sensation as self – harming.
2. Relaxation technique
Learning to relax may help you to cope with the feelings that are leading to self-harming
3. Memory box
Filling a box with positive memories such as pictures, distraction techniques, drawing books, music, films, concert tickets, favourite chocolate bar or anything that means something to you. Sensory objects such as a candle can all help to distract thoughts of self – harming and improve your mood.
4. Keep a feelings diary
By being able to reflect on your feelings and mood it can help to understand you’re feeling low in your mood and maybe why you want to self – harm. By writing a feelings diary it can help you to recognise the trigger, allowing for reflection and development of overcoming the trigger rather than self – harming.
5. What helped David?
David thought it was useful to place his blade in a jar and wrap the jar in sellotape. So when he had the urge to self-harm he would have to peel through the layers of sellotape. This would help him to reduce the urge to self-harm as before he was able to get the blade straight away.
6. Delaying self harm
Setting time scales before self-harming and reviewing the urge to self-harm and increasing the time scale each time using your distraction techniques often can help you to stop self – harming.
how to get help
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