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5 Warning Signs of Grooming

Get to know the warning signs you should look out for.
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1. They offer you things.
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They offer you presents, drugs or alcohol, or they give you money to buy something you want

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2. Their behaviour changes after they’ve gained your trust.
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They might become distant and stop paying you so much attention or you might feel like the relationship is having lots of highs and lows.

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3. You might feel they have power over you.
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This could be for many reasons: they’re older than you, they’re stronger than you, they have more money than you, or they’re part of a group or gang that have power and influence.

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4. They encourage you to...
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…see them alone without your friends or family and ask you not to tell anyone.

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5. Have threatening behaviours.
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They might threaten you or your family and friends, or make you feel like you’ve disappointed them

how to get help

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